DD is 3.4, and started at pre-school in Septemeber. She loves it so it seems, but 2 days ago she came home with big bite mark (full set of teeth by the looks of it) on her hand. She said a girl had bitten her, and it had hurt, and no she hadn't told a grown up. I told her she should tell a grown up if someone bites her or hurts her again. The next day I spoke to the TA when I picked her up, she was a bit shocked and very apologetic. I asked her to keep an eye out.
Today after I pcked her up we were talking about what she had done today and about her friends and I asked her who she had played with this morning. She said nobody. I asked why she hadn't played with her friends and she said they hit her. Further, gentle, questioning resulted in her saying most of her friends did not hit her, but one girl - and I couldn't understand the name, but she was adamant it was this girl, kept shaying, almost shouting the name- did. A little later, without any prompting she said another girl hit her too. I have told her it's OK not to like everyone, but she should try to be nice to them, and she should play with the friends she does like and who don't hit her. I am going to go in early tomorrow and talk to the teacher further, to try to work out what is happening (I can tell her the name DD has been saying and see if it makes sense to her) and also ask more about how DD generally behaves and interacts with the other children.
Can this be the start of bullying? DD is quite small for her age, and has some speach problems (is being monitored by speech therapist, but not considered bad enough for action yet), and does seem rather "babyish" compared to many of her peers. Although I think she is quite bright, she just isn't quite as "clued up" as some of her age. I hate the thought that she might be becoming a target because of one or more of these things.
Thoughts or advice?
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Jammyrella · 14/10/2010 18:49
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