My DS is has just started his second year boarding. He was very badly bullied last year and suffered silently for months before things came to a head. The school, staff and many of the other students are very supportive as there are only 4 main boys doing the bullying,lead by 1.
There are only 6 boys boarding in his form so it is a very enclosed situation. These 4 boys have been suspended on numerous occasions for various forms of bullying and bad behavior. Unfortunately, in Ireland, if a school decides to expel a pupil, the school must provide an alternative place of education so the school has changed the rules of government so that they can expel a boarder from boarding.
Within 20 hours of the boys being back, it has started again in a very minor format of taunting him quietly. I think that the best thing he could do is toughen up to them and tell them to 'Grow up' etc. Up until now he has ignored them and became very withdrawn. While knowing how he feels, I think he should take a stand as to zero toleration on his part.
Can anyone give me advice as to how to help him? He is an intelligent, sensitive person but ,I know from being bullied myself, how hard it is to summon up the courage to face the demons.
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NicolaAnnie · 31/08/2010 20:04
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