You'll no doubt recognise this one, the wannabe alpha-female who dictates who can be friends with who. Pulling faces across the classroom was one thing, but calling names on the route home and standing in her way etc on the way to school is getting too much. My daughter is sensible and doesn't like to make a fuss, but I worry that she'll end up retaliating and the nice girls will get her into trouble. Plus, unless any of us move, there's another four years of the same walk to school
I have promised not to intervene, if she will talk to her teachers about it.
In the process of writing this, the two girls have come to call on her. How's that for timing? This is the first time in months . . . one wearing a riding hat and the other carrying a horse whip. I can't say I'm sad that my girl's out with other friends; but already being cross about the issue, I couldn't stop myself asking why they're calling, when they've been making fun of her for so long. They squirmed and looked guilty and asked if they could come back later. I said they could ring to speak to her if they wanted to apologise.
Part of me is glad to have confronted them and the other part of me concerned that they'll use it against my daughter. Maybe it will nip it in the bud and there can be a clean start next term.
Any thoughts gratefully received!
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74claire · 27/07/2010 18:02
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