And its not even on the cards! Yet.
Dh thinks we should start to think about stopping the bf.
She's 22 months and only bf at bedtime , in the night (if she wakes) and first thing in the morning.
Dh thinks that the bf is why she wakes so early or in the night. But sometimes she'll sleep through (she did 7 till 6 on saturday)and other times she'll go to 5 then have a bf and I hope she'll go back to sleep - she doesn't always . The last week she's been waking at 4.30 though then not going back to sleep at all.
I am happy to still be bf her but I also can't imagine she'll self wean any time soon. And I don't want to do it forever. I would like to TTC no.3 in about 15 months and wanted to have had a large break with no bf before I got pg again.
Telling her that the milks all gone would just be heartbreaking. I know she'd be very upset. I know I could try to go out at bedtime and get dh to do it but I don't want to distress her for our own selfish reasons.
And anyway I'm still ok with it , I like it, but just don't know when its going to stop. Are there any signs??
She's getting more into stories at bedtime and less focussed on milk so thats a turn in the right direction I suppose. She only really settles to feed when ds has gone to bed and its just us and stories are finished.
Shall I just carry on and hope that she self weans whens she's ready. Thats what I'd like , even though I know I'd be very upset when that day comes too!
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Feeling a bit sad about not bf dd anymore.
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princessmel · 18/06/2007 15:11
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