hmm, I do know how I feel really but "can I get a witness?" as they say where I'm from.
Had 9 month check yesterday (though he's just turned 10 mos). Unfortunately, just prior to this, he had a gastro-bug. Solids categorically refused for a week. Chronic diarrhoea for several days. We were worried for a few reasons; dr wasn't. He had lost weight- I already knew that would be the case. This was picked up at the review. But fortunately, the HV took this into account. Unfortunately, this made little difference with the effing growth charts. He is now on 25th centile, whereas he had been on 85th for first 2 months of life (though 50th at birth). So, his eating habits were under the microscope. DS baby-signs for milk (and now disrobes me if my response is too slow. HV says I should only be feeding him morning and night by this point. He evidently should also sleep through the night (never has, but I'm not bothered) because he should be getting all of his calories- from solids mostly during the day. We co-sleep, so I am fine with the night feeds (but I didn't even go there with HV, what she doesn't know won't hurt her) We are weaning for allergies and so he does not have the same diet as his lovely chubbier friends, which is why I am happy to demand feed. His diet won't always be restrictive- he's only just 10 months fgs. But the suggestion is I get his weight back up by stuffing him with high-fat foods: 2 puds a day was the specific recommendation. HV was actually very professional, nice even- just doing her job according to her training, I s'pose. But oh, it's got me down.
I believe in BF for him being the most important at this stage- it just has chipped my confidence a bit (especially as I had not caught up with sleep from DS's bout of unwellness). Also, I know that others have always had ideas about what I'm doing (MIL keeps talking about wanting to "fill him up", ie with solids) and this review just seems to support their views, not mine! I had a look on the WHO charts and LO is actually hovering at the 50th centile for BF babes. This put it in perspective for me. Temporarily. But I'd appreciate any comments from the MN community
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nachomama · 26/04/2007 22:48
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