Feeling a bit tearful as I just don't know what to do for the best.
My ds is ten days old.
I am worried baby is not getting enough food to gain weight.
The five day check found he had lost 330g or 10%. I had a cs and milk didn't come in till day 5, which might explain it, but also baby was very sleepy and reluctant to feed also.
After the day 5 weigh in I was told I had to get his weight up in 48 hours or would have to start expressing. He put on 30g which they were happy with, but doesn't have another weight in till day 13, and am worried it will show he isn't gaining properly and will then be ambushed by the expressing again.
I have been daily to the breastfeeding drop in and they are confident that my position is good and baby is latching and feeding well.
I have a couple of things I am confused about if anyone can guide me.
- Should I be waking baby to feed?- baby is still very sleepy and I have to really work at it to get him awake enough- nappy change, strip him off, stroke feet etc.
I didn't for the first 5 days and he lost weight, so did wake him every three hours on day 6 & 7 when he gained weight, so now don't know if I need to keep doing this (MW says no, demand feeding is better, but he went from 2am till 6:30am this morning with no feeding at all). It feels unnatural to wake him, but if I don't he just doesn't seem to wake up himself properly at regular enough intervals and I don't think can get enough food.
- Night time crying/cluster feeding/wind etc.
He is much more unsettled and awake from about 8pm till 2am, and will feed, scream, feed some more. MW says this is normal and to just feed him whatever he wants.
BF clinic lady says the baby had a lot of wind, is screaming because in pain and the mouthing etc doesn't mean 'i need more food' it means 'i'm distressed and I don't know what to do' and feeding him on top of the wind just makes him more distressed hence the screaming, and I shouldn't keep feeding him once he's had a proper feed but just wind him and put him down.
MW says bf babies do not get wind and there is no need to wind at all.
Baby does seems quite windy to me, you can hear it, he scrunches up his legs to his body, he does lots of farts and if you wind him you get a lot of air up. And if you feed him he does get more distressed after each feed until he is back feeding again so seems to me there might be something in this...but if I do feed even if its wind, at least he is getting food in.
Sorry it is long, please help!