DS is now 12 days old. When he was born the midwives were happy he could latch on. At day 3-4 I felt that I did not have enough breast milk. The boobs went hard but after 1 feed in the morning they felt that they were completely empty. He had urates in nappies at day 4 and again called out midwife. They said he looked OK. Again latch on was checked and again told OK. They also kept telling me they could see him swallow and could hear him. I felt that he was tiring himself out at the breast and was not feeding.
Day 5 and they weighed him and he had lost 20% of birth weight. Admitted to hospital and they NG feed him overnight and gave me a breast pump. It was at this stage I noticed that he had a heart shaped tongue. I pointed out over the next 5 days that I thought he was tongue tied. They told me he could latch so it was OK. Anyway discharged later at day 10. I telephoned a private lactation consultant who said he had a poor suck and that he had a 90% anterior tie and was not surprised he was struggling. To be fair I could only get 10ml out with the hospital pump but I suspect was not using it efficiently.
Since discharge she (the private consultant) is the only person I have seen. The HV is not due to visit till day 16. The midwife has not turned up, but then I had expressed concerns to 5 MW who all said everything was fine. I am still having to give top ups. I am expressing using a normal pump-doing slightly better get 20ml out.
I have lost all my confidence that I am able to breast feed. He still falls asleep on the breast. He ended up having a large top up this afternoon (given via a tube he has to suck on that is attached to my finger). This top up was after an hour attempted feed, where my breasts felt that they didn't refill. Had a feed this am and pumped breasts afterwards and nothing came out. My DH says we are only 48hr post snip so may take longer to come in. I just read everywhere that the first week is where BF established and feel I am starting from nothing trying to ramp it up and am already almost at the 2 week stage. The HV knows the situation but will not see me earlier. I need some encouragement and wondered if anyone could give me some.
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lemonsherbet · 15/07/2013 18:57
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