Not sure if i should post in sleep or feeding as they are tied up together! DS is 25 months and always been devoted to "booboo" as he puts it. This is a new experience for me as my daughter was less interested and we stopped at 12 months. Anyway I've just gone with it and have of course loved the closeness. Alongside this I have co- slept (I say I as DP works away on a 3 week rotation and until v recently has chosen to sleep downstairs due, he says to DS in bed, really he prefers unbroken sleep). Circumstance meant we couldn't get DS into his own room until v recently. So DS tends only to feed before bed and usually settles v well in his own bed. He always wakes between 12-2 and wants in with me, he then feeds on and off through the night. I have no idea now how to break this cycle (I vainly hoped it would sort itself and he'd grow out of it) and now I feel totally exhausted most of the time and no longer in control of the situation as he is quite a big boy now and tends to head butt his way in! He also goes from one side to another and now I can no longer do the finger suction lock release thing as he has worked out how to grip with his teeth! (A delicate situation!) I find my self telling him "enough" and "done" and even "please" as he falls asleep, this usually does it and he lets go, settling again, till the next time. I don't think I'm producing much milk and I know that this is a comfort for him which is now tied up with sleeping. Whilst i have loved being able to feed him I want to break the cycle now but don't even know where to begin! Does anyone have experience of this and can offer advice?
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Advanced b/f, DS is controlling situation & I've had enough! How to break the cycle?
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hoosyermama · 24/03/2013 08:56
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