Just looking hopefully for some reassurance from people who have been through similar. My gorgeous DS2 is 3.5 weeks old, born at 8lb 4oz by elective section, weighs 7lb 11oz currently. Has been feeding well for past few days, every 2hrs, clusters in morning and evenings, no vomits, loads of poo and wee (poo a bit green recently, read this may be due to overproduction by me, makes sense as I have plenty to go around!). He is alert, settled and hardly cries. Am trying to keep him on one boob for as long as he wants (can be an hour or more), then offer him the other side. I am happy with latch / suck / swallowing.
Health visitor getting very stressed as he has not regained birthweight. There has been talk of admitting him which to be honest I think I would refuse as he to me is a well baby. There has also been talk of giving him formula, again don't want to muck about with this as he has just got established with breastfeeding.
They are weighing him every 2 days. I am getting so stressed with each weigh in I struggle to put him on the scales as I'm so shaky. If he has gained a bit I feel great, if he has lost a bit (as he had yesterday), I feel really upset for the rest of the day and guilty that I can't seem to fatten him up. He is between 9th and 25th centiles and has been the last few times he has been weighed. Midwife weighed him yesterday and got v annoyed, said every 2 days was far too often and he should be left a week, which I agree with but need to convince health visitor of this.
I know really 2oz is the difference between a feed / poo / wee, but I'm finding it all so bloody disheartening. Feel like I keep going to get my exam results and failing :(
I did express for a bit when I didn't feel he was sucking that well, but as everything so much better now I would rather just carry on breastfeeding as I was devoting 24hours a day to my boobs when expressing, not finding time to enjoy DS2 and just leaving DS1 to watch cbeebies...
DS1 also lost weight and wasn't a great feeder initially but picked up much quicker than this, breastfed for a year, is absolutely huge now. I am completely determined to bf DS2 but am finding the whole weighing in and threats of admission very depressing.
Have others been through this and found that time made it better? Can I tell my health visitor to back off a bit?
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Breastfed 3.5 week not regained birthweight
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MummyLeg · 24/02/2013 06:48
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