Hi everyone, ive just lost my mum to cancer only a month ago. She never told us she had it and we had to watch her deteriorate over the 2 weeks. It was horrific and barbaric. There are so many unanswered questions...
The palliative care nurse told us that mum just put it in s box and pushed it to one side. It's so very sad because if we had known we could of made her final few months happy ones with lots of memories.
She died of endometrial cancer on the bowel but only told us she had endometriosis and not cancer. Mum was such a very strong willed and strong munded woman and to see this happen to her only made me more angry.
My dad is coping well and we are doing lots of things with him to look forward to eg trips away etc.
I wanted to know, did my mum feel the pain and would she of known she was dying??
I'm just so sad about it and feel there are so many unanswered questions!!
Anyone been in a similar way??
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Losing my mum to cancer
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Bex33 · 16/08/2014 09:49
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