should I stay or should I go?

[flowerbaby13violet]

So.. long story short. Me and my bf got together in sept 2009. Had a baby in 2013, and a year ago this month i found out he had been cheating on me by sending facebook messages to loads of other girls for 2 years!! They were rude/ sexy messages and asking to go on webcam and sending pics. So i told him i found them and he basically said he wanted to know that he still "had it"!! I dont trust him but i love him.. help?!? Xx

[vintage47]

Hi. It's often difficult to see what to do when it is happening to you. So, I always think .... What would I advise if this was happening to my daughter? Would I want her treated like this? If you can see clearly for someone else, then the same applies to you. You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness. Don't confuse 'love' with need. Can you really 'love' someone who would do this to you?

Be brave and consider all your options.