Feel so upset 1 yr on from Dm's death and causing relationship problems

[willmama7]

My DM died when my DS was 7 months old.

it was a difficult time anyway as DH and I adjusted to having a baby and his parents had moved away and were being very selfish and difficult.

My DH was rubbish with dealing with my bereavement and every time I was cranky with him he would come back at me with an argument and if I cried and got upset he would sigh and say that he was getting bored of hearing about it (he first said this 3 woks after her death)

I went to counselling for months and that really helped but as time goes on (1yr now) I still get very upset as my mum and I hadn't spoken for a long time when she died (family probs but another story) so I feel like I never got chance to clear the air and I could really do with a hug from her now, as the longer I'm married and a mum, the more I start to empathise with what she went through with my Dad.

My DH is a good man essentially, just emotionally not very supportive and I can't seem to shake the feeling of anger towards how crap he has been emotionally when it really counted.

Thank you for reading.

[malibutigger31]

Men are so different, they deal with things in their own special way. Maybe offer some advice than you just want a hug when you are feeling down about things. if you ever want to talk more feel free to message me. I found it very hard after my mum passed, we were very close so a different situation to your own but she never got to meet my children and being a mum myself really drove home just how hard it was to lose her. x

[willmama7]

Thanks Mali x