My husband died In Spain just over 2 weeks ago and his body only arrived back in England last Wednesday. After he'd died I was allowed very little time with him and now because he's been embalmed and they do it differently over there I'm being advised not to see him. (It was a peaceful death he had a heart attack in his sleep and I believe he knew nothing about it.) I've discussed it with my sons and we don't want to be haunted by what we might see if we do decide to see him. It's just so hard though knowing I have just a few days left when I can see him before he's cremated.
Has anyone else been in this situation and decided to view their beloved and regretted it afterwards? I so desperately want to see him one more time. My sons feel that if they don't see him they can't quite believe that he's died (they're in their twenties) but I'm scared they will regret it if they do.
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needahug57 · 14/07/2014 09:00
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