When I collected my children today from nursery, one of the managers was there. She went off on maternity leave a few weeks ago and was heavily pg then (??30wks??) I have been away so having lost track of time and seeing her once again slim and trim I of course asked how was the baby.
This is when she told me that the baby had been stillborn a week or so ago and had been cremated yesterday. She told me some detail and I asked if they were having a ceremony for the ashes, was it a boy or girl and what was his name - in fact anything not to be one of those people who go Oh and leg it asap!
She is not a friend but is very friendly and I want to do something to mark what they are going through but have no idea what. I would have sent a congrats card upon the birth and feel it is wrong not to do something now - but also feel that a sympathy type card is kind of wrong....
Help please oh wise ones!
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SecurMummy · 06/09/2006 19:17
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