Tomorrow is the funeral of one of my classmates at university, she tragically died in a car accident. She was an only child. I have been desperately sad for the loss of such a young life.
As it's a weekend, childcare is tricky. I was considering missing the funeral and attending the wake only as I think it would be inappropriate to take DD to the funeral as she is only 2 and would get loud and fidgety - and then it suddenly struck me how painful it might be for her parents to see a child running around at the wake in any case so should I just stay away? The only issue is I don't want her parents, my tutors and classmates to think I don't care. I know at an elderly relatives wake everyone was so happy to see children, but I think this is very different, right?
I'm leaning towards the not going at the moment. I've signed a memorial book so her parents will have something from me.
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GotMyGoat · 16/05/2014 16:34
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