My sister, who had been trying to conceive for about 4 years, finally conceived a child last December. Her due date was 17th August (last Thursday). I have 4 boys of my own and was desperate for my sister to experience the joys of being a mum. Last Friday we had a conversation where she asked whether it was normal for there to be less movement. As with any questions she had I said I was sure it was fine but if she was concerned she must contact the midwife/labour ward. She was out for the day on Saturday and on the way home realised that she had not felt any movement for several hours so they went straight to the hospital. The doctors and midwives could not detect a heartbeat and nothing showed up on a scan. My sister decided to have the labour induced straight away and after a very slow start gave birth to a gorgeous baby girl in the early
hours of yesterday morning. We were all at the hospital with her and were able to spend some very special moments with her and her husband and their precious baby daughter. They are home now, we have all returned to our homes from the hospital and just feel lost. At the hospital we had one another to support and we felt close to one another. I am at home trying to get back to a normal way of life with my boys. I want to help my sister but have no idea how to or where to start. My mum is with her but I feel I can't phone because I dont know if that is the right thing to do. It looks like the funeral will be next week. How do you cope with something like this? Can anyone give any practical advice?
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