is this normal?

[trace2]

i was only 4 weeks pg, just found out ,then lost all symptoms of pg, so did a test it was bfn, so did another the morning after it too was bfn, anyway went to gp, he said he thinks it was an early miscarage, and had to wait to see if i bleed. well i did start to yesterday, but its so painfull, in lower back and lower stomach, this is not like me have tried reading up on early miscarge and it just says it should be like another period!, but its bloodt killing me, please antone whos had an early miscarage i know iys hard but how bab was your pain?

[HellKat]

So sorry to hear this.
I've had 4 early mc, one being a missed mc. Yep they all hurt like hell, alot worse than an af. I suffer from severe endometriosis so know what painful af's are but these were more like mini labours.
Only thing that eased it for me (apart from painkillers) is a hot bath and if you've got any hot water bottles or heat pads, pop them on your back.
It will pass hun, hope you're bearing up as well as can be expected.
{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}

[SlightlyFamiliarPeachyClair]

Aw Trace, sorry to hear your news

[trace2]

HellKat , sorry about yours and thank you, gp i would get slight pain, not this, and yes i said today its like when you first go into labour, i am using a heat pad, in this heat too

[cece]

I had no pain at all with mine. if I were you I would phone NHS Direct if you do need to see a doc they can fast track you an appointment at A&E or a harmany clinic today.

I am sooooo sorryto hear this trace

[HellKat]

You're very welcome hun.
Gp's make me laugh, I guess if they said yes it's bloody painful, then they'd scare other women.I remember being told that I'd experience "mild cramping". Hmmmmm. Was alot more than that.
I hope when the time comes it's as quick as possible so you don't have the prolonged wait. I think you deserve a nice glass of something cold (purely for medicinal purposes plus it may ease cramps )
Take care. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[desperate2bmum]

so sorry to hear this trace.
when i had my missed m/c i started bleeding but baby was still inside but stopped growing...a couple of days later the bleeding increased and i was told that i would get "period like" pains. that evening it was BAD pains i couldnt stand or sit...and it brought tears to my eyes (tmi warning) i dont know if its the same for most but after about 2 hours of bad pains i passed several LARGE clots and the pain went back to period like pains. but the pain increased again afterwards and i had an infection. get it checked to be on the safe side.

[DollyP]

Oh trace, I am so sorry to read this . Take care of yourself now, won't you? Sending hugs. X

[coggy]

Thinking of you dear Trace.
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