I had a unique, complex and deep relationship with my mother as she was suddenly widowed at 27 with 6 young children. I was the oldest aged 6 at the time and took on the other parent role thru my childhood and adulthood....since we lost her 4 years ago aged 63 very suddenly and horrifically to cancer we have all been devastated. I lapsed into a 3rd ssucessive severe depression (the two before had been PNDs) and have been told from friends and family that I should be making progress and not have this sadness about me still. I have been told to "deal with my grief" and get some specialist psychological help. Has anyone else been through this where grief doesnt shift - what does dealing with it look like? I am currently already on ADs and now a tranquilliser - and on my 3rd visit to a counsellor - what else should/could I be doing?
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Not getting through my grief - gone on for 4 yrs now in severe depression.
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mulranno · 28/10/2012 07:16
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