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My friend Liz died today.

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chickydoo · 26/10/2012 20:15

Just that.
My Lovely friend Liz died today.
A strong brave woman. So independent.
I loved her, and will miss her so so much.
I think I am still in shock.
I just wanted to tell someone

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ledkr · 26/10/2012 20:16

Oh how awful why don't you tell us about her

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Gunznroses · 26/10/2012 20:18

So sorry to hear that OP Sad did she have children ?

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Yama · 26/10/2012 20:18

I am very sorry Chickydoo. I have been close to tears all day. My wee brother died two and a half years ago and it hits hard at times.

Do you want to tell us about your friend Liz? I'd like to hear about her.

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knittedslippersx3 · 26/10/2012 20:19

So sorry. Be kind to yourself xx

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DorothyGherkins · 26/10/2012 20:23

You expect your parents and grandparents to die before you. You expect your friends to be around forever, dont you. I m so sorry to hear this sad news, Chickydoo, a good friend is a treasure forever.

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chickydoo · 26/10/2012 20:24

Thank you
No she didn't have children, but was lovely with my kids. Always helping out.
She had been ill for a while, I saw her last week & she seemed Ok, she didn't feel good on Tuesday & died today. We think it was a pulmonary embolism, will have to wait for the pm.
She was so proud & vibrant, she had MS, but was quite an aggressive form, also lots of complications.
We did laugh a lot & she gave me lots of confidence and had a wicked sense of humour. She had a lovely husband, a soppy cat and a tankful of fish... And lots of friends ...

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ledkr · 26/10/2012 20:30

I guess you can remember her as having a happy fulfilling life and a good friend in you

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Shakey1500 · 26/10/2012 20:33

I'm sorry for the loss of your friend. She sounds absolutely wonderful. People like that are few and far between aren't they?

A close friend of mine died two years ago, she was wonderful too. She also had a great sense of humour and quite often we find ourselves saying a "Lou-ism" and laughing affectionately. My favourite (though I realise it will mean zilch to anyone but me) is when she was arguing about the pronunciation of "Theydon Bois". She was adamant is was Theydon Boys whilst the rest were Theydon Bwah. I can still hear her screeching :)

Take Care x

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OhlimpPricks · 26/10/2012 21:36

I'm sorry to hear the news. When something like this happens, you look around you and wonder how everyday life is continuing after such a sadness. It continues much richer than before,as you realise quite how precious someone was.
Be good to yourself. x

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chickydoo · 26/10/2012 21:49

Shakey1500
Thank you... You made me smile.
MN is so wonderful sometimes.
I appreciate everyone's kind words

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DorsetKnob · 26/10/2012 21:51

I am so sorry for your loss, she sounds fabulous.

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whiteandyelloworchid · 26/10/2012 23:00

i'm really sorry to hear that, sounds like you were both lucky to have each other
i'm so sorry for your loss

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Portofino · 26/10/2012 23:07

So sorry to hear this. Lovely friends are so important. MN is chock full of dh,dc and evil playground witches, Noone ever celebrates their good friends. RIP Liz.

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chickydoo · 26/10/2012 23:09

Thank you all again

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