Cot Death

(145 Posts)
My5boysandme Sun 07-Oct-12 21:23:06

On the 24th of September my ds5 died of cot death. He was only 13 weeks and 4 days. His funeral was last Wednesday. My arms ache to hold him, everywhere I look his things are there. I miss him so much.

usualsuspect3 Sun 07-Oct-12 21:25:28

I'm so very sorry for your loss xx

Do you have RL support?

WilfredToadflax Sun 07-Oct-12 21:27:18

I'm so, so sorry xx

I'm so sorry for your loss x

bluebump Sun 07-Oct-12 21:27:53

I'm so sorry for your loss. Xxx

susiedaisy Sun 07-Oct-12 21:28:39

So sorry for your loss sad

So very sorry for the loss of your precious boy x

piratecat Sun 07-Oct-12 21:29:22

oh op, i am so sorry for your loss. what was his name. xxx

RandomMess Sun 07-Oct-12 21:29:31

So sorry for your loss, what is your sons name x

kid Sun 07-Oct-12 21:29:47

I am really sorry to hear of your loss, you will never, ever forget your precious son but you over time, it will hurt less. I hope you have lots of support around you.

Fuchzia Sun 07-Oct-12 21:30:29

I am so sorry for the loss of your precious boy.

So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family.

Portofino Sun 07-Oct-12 21:32:15

So very sorry to hear this. Big (((((hugs))))) for you. sad

NellyBluth Sun 07-Oct-12 21:32:34

I'm so, so sorry for your loss, OP. Thinking of you and all your family at this terrible time.

What was your son's name?

My5boysandme Sun 07-Oct-12 21:32:45

I have my dh and parents around. My other ds's are 9,7,5 and 3. I was home alone with the 5 boys when it happened, as dh was away on his 1st ever overnight business trip. I just feel so guilty even though everyone says it was nothing I did. I've been having panic attacks, I can't go upstairs myself, I have to sleep with the light on. I miss Dexter so much sad

popsypie Sun 07-Oct-12 21:36:30

I am so sorry.

HumphreyCobbler Sun 07-Oct-12 21:38:17

I am so sorry.

Thelobsterswife Sun 07-Oct-12 21:39:21

So so sorry for your loss. RIP little Dexter.

My5boysandme Sun 07-Oct-12 21:43:37

How do you go on after losing a baby? I know I'm lucky I have the other boys to keep me going, but when they are at school/bed it just consumes me.

LetsKateWin Sun 07-Oct-12 21:44:01

I'm so sorry for your loss x

MrsWolowitz Sun 07-Oct-12 21:47:05

I'm so sorry.

Just so so so sorry. I don't know what else to say sad

RachelHRD Sun 07-Oct-12 21:49:35

I'm so so sorry for your loss xx

aimingtobeaperfectionist Sun 07-Oct-12 21:50:05

I'm so sorry to hear about Dexter. This won't be something you get over but something you learn to live with. Your boys need you. Hold them and kiss them. I hope you realise soon this was not your fault. My prayers go out to you all xxx

mariposa1 Sun 07-Oct-12 21:50:45

I'm so so sorry for your loss x

mariposa1 Sun 07-Oct-12 21:51:44

I'm so so sorry for your loss x

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