Had scary meeting with consultant today to be given results of the post mortem - it's been a long long 6 weeks waiting for it.
It was totally inconclusive - which i'm fairly relieved about. At least I don't have to blame myself or blame my body for not functioning properly.
It's hard not having a reason for why it happened and seems such a waste - but it does mean that I can (if I can ever pluck up the courage again) get pregnant and know that it should go smoothly (touch wood/caveat and any number of superstitious things!!)
This has been hanging over my head like a ton of bricks and I am just so relieved that it is over. Only one last thing to do now (decide what on earth to do with his ashes) then it is all over - we can try to move on.
I'm under no illusion that there will still be many ups and downs to come.
Thanks to everyone for yr support.
DHWx
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