DD had a pet rat which someone gave us about 6 months ago - he was already old. He's been really ill for about a week and this morning he had died. DD didn't seem to be too upset but she has no understanding of what's actually happened. I let her see him and explained that he had died etc and she went off to school quite happily. DP came home while she was out and we buried him in the garden. When she came home she wanted to see where we buried him so i took her out and said we'd get a little stone animal to put there to remember him etc. At dinner time she asked if fatty ratty would be cold outside all night in the ground so I tried to say that he was ok because he'd gone to animal heaven where there were lots of animals and he'd be very happy etc etc to which she asked if they got him there in a truck! So she wanted to know how he got to Heaven - to which I told her he had angel wings!! It got more and more impossible to come up with answers that wouldn't confuse her more! She thinks he's gone to get better and is coming back
I don't know what else to tell her?!
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OnZephyrstDayofXmas · 13/12/2005 18:36
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