my mum died last thursday

[oops]

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[lucycinco]

So sorry oops!

[JessicaandRebeccasmummy]

Im really sorry hun, i know exactly how you feel, i lost my mum last year (she was only 47) and Jessica was only 2 weeks old.

If you need to talk, please do not hesitate to CAT me. xxx

[oops]

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[Tinker]

So sorry.

[Flossam]

Oh, oops. Saw that you couldn't make the meet up because of this, so sorry. It must be so very hard for you right now. I have nothing useful to say, but just for you to know I am thinking of you and offering online {{{{{}}}}}.

[Miaou]

[Tamba]

((( hugs )))

[Cadeauxbury]

So sorry

[suedonim]

So sorry to hear your news.

[busybusybee]

[Hulababy]

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mum Oops Thinking of you.

[hunkermunker]

Oops, I'm so very sorry Have nothing to offer but a shoulder, should you need it x x x x

[Aero]

So sorry to hear this Oops.

[aloha]

I am so sorry.

[gooseysgettingfat]

to you]]

[QueenVictoria]

So sorry

[MrsSpoon]

[marthamoo]

I am really sorry, oops - it must be so hard.

[Janh]

I'm very sorry, oops. But she will have known that you thought she was a lovely woman and that you will miss her a lot - many people don't get that - and the fact that you didn't say goodbye won't have mattered to her because she will have known how much you loved her.

You can keep her alive for your kids too with your memories. You are lucky really.

Hugs. XXX

[BournemouthBaubleBabe]

So sorry, oops. Such true words JanH; my lovely MIL died of cancer a few days before my b/day this year; ds (5) own memory of her may be short but we talk about her a lot, 'building' memories, if you like. Thinking of you, Oops. x

[SHHHHsantaiscoming]

oops sorry to hear about this. I hope things get better soon.

You say :"what makes me saddest of all is that she won't see my ds1 and 2 grow up, she loved kids.
They are too young to remember her too".............

My grandma (dads mum) died before I was even thought about, my grandad (dads dad) died when I was around the age of 1. I don't remember them in the sense of visitng them,playing with them etc BUT I was always told about them,shown photos and I have fond memories of the joy they brought to others lives.Even now (aged 26) my mum & dad both tell me stories about my grandparents. My mums dad died about 4 years ago and my mums mum sadly died in July. I have memories of both sets of grandparents,some my own some from others. Remember you are able to keep your mums memory alive. Hope 2006 is a happier year for you. xx