My dd2 is 4, will be starting school in September but currently goes to nursery for 2.5 hours every day. She's a model child at nursery (so I'm told!) but she acts like a monster at home! I'm not sure how to handle her any more. Her temper is amazing, to the point where she throws things around the room if I send her there for time out. She is really aggressive towards me (and sometimes dh) whenever I ask her to do something and she doesn't want to do it. She can wake up in the morning and literally, the screaming starts then because she doesn't want to get up. We're talking screaming-at-the-top-of-your-voice type screaming too.
I've tried time-out, I've tried taking her toys away one by one when she's naughty, I've tried bribery, I've tried cuddling her, being very calm with her, ignoring her. Is there anything else I can try? A couple of times I've actually felt like smacking her . It's really getting me down as I feel like I'm letting her down, and letting myself down by not knowing how to handle my own daughter.
She's otherwise a lovely girl, really loving and kind and we do have lots of cuddles and I tell her I love her all the time. We often go out for lunch together after I pick her up from nursery, so she is getting attention too (more than dd1, that's for sure!) I'm really stuck here.
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Concerned about dd2's behaviour
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kando · 28/03/2007 09:52
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