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Biglips · 19/02/2007 12:55

pls take a look

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Hassled · 19/02/2007 13:04

You sound like a great SM. Can anyone talk to SD's mum - SIL perhaps? IME girls of that age can really start being mean to each other - all this "you're not my best friend" stuff. My DD had a miserable time at school at that age, but it does pass - not much help to your SD now, I know. It's possible the mother's not doing anything because she doesn't know what to do, but could the SIL step in and at least get her talking about it?

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Biglips · 20/02/2007 11:03

well sil lives miles away from Sd's house and sil hadnt spoken to SD's mum for a long time as she is abit of a bitch with a few probs with her and dp....but anyway im just hoping that Sd knows what to do now with some advices from us and hope she will stand up to her.

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Biglips · 20/02/2007 20:57

and another worrying thing that its name picking on her as the best friend (and 2 other girls) are calling her fatty, stupid, etc but she is actually on the other end of the scale. She had asked me a few times if her bum is too big or she is fat!!!!!!

blimey i didnt think of those things at all when i was her age but nowadays its all about weight and fashion