Hello there-my son was born prematurely-throughout my pregnancy i felt as though he was stuck and I was sitting on him- i always had quite a few false labours and so at my insistence the antenatal staff at the hospital started to regulary monitor his heart-at every appointment the babys heart would drop off- I was convinced that there was something very wrong-but no doctor or mid wife would take me seriously-on the day that he was born i went to hospital three times and was rudely told to go away and that perhaps i had wet myself and that my waters had not broken-on my last visit i refused to go and thank goodness a kind midwife examined and shocked told me baby was coming-labour lasted all of an hour when she worriedly told me that baby's heart rate kept dropping off and she called a consultant who straight away ordered an emergency C-section. Baby was born-he was beautiful but had the longest head-no one thought it was anything serious-so brought him home-slept him on his back-every few weeks i would tell doctors and health visitors i was worried about his head-they poo pooed me-at 5 months baby's head was severly flat at the back-i saved up went to a private craniofacial doctor-baby had positional plagiocephaly-head shape was bracheycephaly, flat at back, wide at sides and tall at the top-was devestated but doctor assured me baby would be ok it would improve would not be perfect but would get better-most important was that he was otherwise normal-he said if i was still not happy in a few months we could consider a special moulding helmet-then one day looking at photos from my wedding i noticed that my older brothers head was exactly the same as my sons-my brother is 34-and in an adult his head did not look odd at all-so when people say that the head will improve I reckon sometimes it is true-even more interestingly I found out-coming from Ghana west africa that there childrens head are thought to be incredibley beautiful if they are flat-in fact it is a sign that you could one day become a great king or a queen and so parents deliberately try and flatten heads.....also the cranio doctor said in the future there weill probably be as many children with flat heads as without
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Mere · 23/06/2004 14:16
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