OK, so what do you make of this. We have a little "treat bag" on the christmas tree that the "fairy" sometimes puts a little sweetie or chocolate in. My DD1 (nearly 5) came home from school the other day looked in the bag, saw a chocolate, threw herself on the ground said I don't want chocolate, I want sweets, went upstairs and had a right old strop. When she reappeared, I explained that it was a nice treat and that some children don't get nice things and that she is very lucky (all a bit lost on her I am afraid). We have a lot of these incidences. Perhaps I should stop doing nice stuff. We also have an advent calendar with lots of drawers filled with gifts and sweeties. On a day it isn't something sweet she always has a strop. Does anyone have any thoughts on what is a good thing to say, or should I just ignore - very hard as it makes me so cross! Help!
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