Feeling frazzled (and soaked). 5 year old DS has been having 1 swimming lesson a week after school simce July. He is sometimes a bit reluctant to join in, but always seems to enjoy it, and is getting quite good. However today took the biscuit. He refused to get into the pool, and when I suggested he went to get changed instead, he totally lost it. He had the choice, get in the pool or come home, but instead stood there screaming and stamping, as if he was 3! Had to haul him off to the changing rooms (hence soaked) where he continued to let rip (don't you hate an echo in that situation?). What do I do? Cancel the lessons? And more immediately, what now? He has been really bolshy since he started school in September, and constantly refuses to do anything I ask. It's slight comfort that he is apparently an angel at school. I can't seem to find any punishment/reward that gets me anywhere with him.
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