He is gorgeous, and I adore him of course, but I'm just worried that his personality is manisfesting itself as 'geeky' way too early, and I worry that it will affect him at school, in friendships, and perhaps his happiness, since children can be so cruel...
All sorts of things make me think this:
- he is VERY tall/ lanky and unco-ordinated. He seems to have a natural tendency to sit like a frog with his knees up around his ears - even on chairs....
- he just seems to have a massive brain and capability to remember things (can remember a poem word perfect after hearing it once )
- is fascinated by facts and the ways things work. He will happily read for up to an hour in bed before he gets up at 6.30 - especially those encyclopedia type DK books etc
- he is top of his class in every subject
- Although he has been doing sports (football/ rugby) he is not very good, and seems so distant and uninvolved on the pitch - like he doesn't really see the point. At rugby last week I watched him standing, engrossed in the velcro part of his 'tag belt' examining the 'mechanics' of it, while the ball and the game passed him by!
- He wears glasses
- He doesn't seem to have any close friends despite being in the same class for 3 years. His teachers say he gets on well with everyone but no one in particular. He seems to be more friendly with girls than boys.
The boys in his class are now all getting into the sporty macho stuff, and to be honest I feel rather sad for him. I don't want to force him to be something he's not (impossible to do anyway) but I kind of want him to be more 'self aware' as to how he might appear to others, and why they might react to it?
How can I help him?