I thought DS (16mo) could strop for Britain already, but he's just started having really huge, screaming ab-dab tantrums and I'm not sure how to handle them. He screams and screams, kicks, wriggles, works himself up into such a state he can't breathe, and can't calm himself down - it goes way beyond stropping to get attention or get his own way, he actually can't control himself at all - eg today he really needed and weanted his milk but was so hysterical he kept pushing it away and spilling it. It went on for over half an hour until finally he made himself sick with screaming - I felt so sorry for him.
They start over totally everyday things like not being allowed to take his blanket in the bath or having to come back inside after a walk.
My question is what's the best response? I've tried holding and reassuring him, letting him lie on the floor with his blanket, in his cot, on our bed with me - everything just gets him more and more worked up. Distraction works if you get in early enough, but what if you don't? I don't want to punish or ignore him as it's obvious this is beyond his control...
And lastly does this sound like normal toddler tantrums? Advice much appreciated...
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Is this just normal terrible twos arriving early - and what do I do?
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snowleopard · 17/10/2006 21:51
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