My 5 year old dd is a sensitive little girl at the best of times. The last few weeks she has been waking in the night and has been very difficult to settle off saying she is frightened about someone getting into her room etc. When I tell her not to worry /she's safe etc she still doesn't settle and screams and cries when I leave the room. In order to avoid waking ds (2.5) and so, if I'm honest, I can get back to sleep as quickly as possible, we don't leave her to cry but let her come in and sleep on our floor. I know that I shouldn't be doing this but just can't face the battle that would ensue at 3am. She is a very stubborn little thing and doesn't just accept what we tell her but insists that she can't get the thought / image out of her head. Is she just playing up? She seems genuinely scared.
Anyway, this had been going for about a week and we started a star chart. Her reward after 5 nights good behaviour / not getting out of her bed was a 'big girl's dinner (dinner out after normal teatime) with a friend of her choice. We did that last night. Although she had got her 5 stars prior to Friday and I had asked the friend, on Friday night she woke up frightened and came in on our floor. Very conveniently she had said before bed on Friday night "I don't have to be good tonight do I?". So I wonder is she playing up?
Anyway, yesterday we were out shopping and she saw a Nanny McPhee clip on a tv while we were out and got really scared. It emerged that about a week and a half ago when at a friends house she had watched Nanny McPhee and was frightened and N.McP was the subject of her night terrors. Is she playing up?
She woke up again last night and wouldn't listen to reason / kept saying she couldn't stop thinking about it. Nothing seems to work. I fear that you are all going to say that we should just leave her to scream and cry but I don't want to disturb the little one / can't face it. She is fairly highly strung and has always been a fairly shy child that can get upset easily by seemingly normal things.
What should I do?
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5 year old with night terrors about Nanny McPhee - help!
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Tillysmummy · 15/10/2006 08:04
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