Hi All
In need of some advice please! So, my 3.5 yr old DD has always known her own mind and wanted her own way. Since she's been about 18 months she's had regular phases of being pretty difficult/rebellious etc. However currently her behaviour is scaling new heights of horror! Massive public tantrums. Hits and kicks me and her father. Massive bedtime struggles to the extent that we've had to put her back in a cot from a toddler bed.
Now, it is pretty clear to me why this is all happening. 1) she has a 5 month old brother. from when he was about 3 weeks til 3 months she was very jealous. then she really started to calm down and form a bond with him and it was lovely. Then a month later we moved from London to the United States and since then she has been really really difficult. The jealousy has resurfaced worse than ever and the behaviour in general is awful - though we do have patches of normality.
Has anyone experienced this sort of reaction to massive life changes? What can I do to help her? She is in nursery here which has also been tough but she is getting more and more settled there now.
Any good books to read? Siblings without rivalry? Raising your spirited child?
And what can I do to help myself? Don't mean to sound selfish but between her tantrums and her brother's broken sleep I really feel like I am going to crack up. How do you keep sane at times like this?!
Thanks!
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helping 3.5 yr old deal with big changes in life
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dreamsofsleep · 31/07/2014 02:44
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