My 2 yr old DD has just had a 45 minute horrendous tantrum. We were going with the usual routine, lunch, upstairs for nappy change around 12.15, quick story in her bed, little sing song and that's her for 1.5 hrs. She settles herself off to sleep quite happily. Usually.
Today though, straight after lunch she decided no to nap and wanted to go into the living room for a story so I said ok that's fine, one story then its up to bed. Did that. No that wasn't good enough, want c beebies on. I said no way its bed time. She was clearly tired with red eyes and rubbing them. She said she wanted carrying upstairs which I did to keep the peace as she was starting to throw a wobbler. Got upstairs and all hell broke loose for 45 minutes. Ive never seen anything like it. It was quite dangerous for me being 18 wks pregnant with her kicking and throwing herself around. Her tantrums have been getting worse recently but this topped the lot.
I tried asking her gently whats wrong and offering cuddles, moving onto we cant go to the fayre later if you don't go to bed, onto me threatening time out/naughty corner etc (which just made things 10 times worse), I tried walking away and leaving her to it in the hope she would calm down on her own. None of it worked until I asked was she sore, did her mouth hurt (why didn't I think of this before!), to which she sobbed yes so I got her some calpol which she seemed to like but then she became inconsolable again and wouldn't let me go sobbing cuddle cuddle. In the end she fell asleep in my arms through sheer exhaustion and still sobbing in her sleep. I managed to get her into bed eventually and shes still there now fast asleep.
I just don't feel like I know what to do when she melts down like that. To begin with she wont accept cuddles, shes too wild for that. Then at some point during the tantrum she decides to stick to me like glue and wont let me out of her sight. I know its all part and parcel of the temper tantrums but just wondered how others handle it as I feel like im all over the place trying to get her to calm down with no strategy for dealing with them effectively. Help!!
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How to manage the really bad melt downs
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LittlePink · 30/07/2014 13:38
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