This is more of a rant than anything ... but I am finding it all rather hard to keep up with.
I am really enjoying the summer holidays - but feel that I am ruining them by beating myself up about what other people's kids are doing.
Without exception my mates seem to be run ragged whereas I am taking it easy and having "fun" with the kids.
We are week 7 of the holidays ( Irish holidays ) and everyone is out there doing stuff.
One week it's tennis camp, the next week it's football camp ... and any days in between the cricket pitch
Someone elses kids are "spending the whole summer on the golf course" ...
Why aren't I doing this ...?
We get up late - the kids spend most of the morning on th PS2 and then ( once I have pulled myself put of my book ) we go and so an afternoon activity.
No I admit and I am not hugely sporty and neither are the kids ( DS 13 and DD 11 ).... so we go to the movies, or the beach or invite a mate around.
I KNOW that I should not worry .... but why aren't I doing what everyone elses kids do ...
I feel that after school they need a break from all that organisation and should be allowed to switch off .... am I being a bit lazy / selfish.
SHould I up my game ???
Thanks
OMG Postie has just come to the door and I am in my Jammies !!
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Crystaltips · 23/08/2006 11:41
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