My daughter is 21 months now and I am expecting my 2nd child in March. My daughter has always been a good eater and as I returned to work 3 days a week, my parents have her on those days. However, due to pending 2nd child, I have tried to encourage her to feed herself as much as she can, so that when the next child comes along, I am not worried that I am getting stressed trying to feed 2 babies. To start with she did this really well and ate her meals.
I have had various, tentative conversations with my parents about trying to do this at there house, as well as telling them to cut down on tv, and most recently, I have noticed that my daughter is becoming increasing fussy with her food, which is not helping that cause of her being more independent with her food.
I think this stems from the fact that if she doesn't eat her main meal at my parents, she gets her pudding anyway just to get some food in her. She sits in front of the TV whilst having meals and despite me trying to encourage my parents to let her eat by herself, I still walk in to them feeding her. My mother also insists on giving her biscuits and crisps in between meals, which drives me mental and I have told her to stop, to the point we have had a full blown argument. We also fell out about her giving the bairn Tea, which I did not condone at all. She always comes back with the 'I've brought up 3 children' excuse, but I do fire back with 'my child, my rules'
So my dilemma is what to do. Do I carry on trying to persuade my mother that I don't want certain things done and want them done a certain way, or do I sit them down and tell them 'This is what I want' and be direct.
My parents are great with my daughter, but I feel especially my mother seems to defy what I want just to spite me, as if its funny.
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Fussy Eater, but I think it may be my parents fault...Please advise
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gardeningangel · 27/12/2013 09:40
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