DS has been going to the same nursery three mornings a week since Sept and has really loved it. Last Monday he cried when DH left him and has thrown a fit every morning when taken to school since then. This morning he was screaming and throwing such a fit before we even started out the door that it frightened me.
How do I know if this is something serious or just one of those things? When I've asked him why he doesn't want to go he has said that he's afraid one of the boys will hit him and that his special friend is gone. I've spoken to the teacher about the little boy (who is a known bully) and she reassured me and DS that she will keep an eye on things on the playground. DS seemed happy with that response. As for his special friend leaving, she has left because she's starting primary in Sept. What can I do to help DS with this transition and are these two things enough to cause such an extreme reaction?
I fear I've made a monumental mistake by keeping him home today but aside from forcibly dragging him to school I didn't know what else to do. No amount of talk or bribery made any difference. I feel really concerned and not sure how to handle the situation.
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DS (almost 4) suddenly not wanting to go to nursery
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Tex111 · 10/07/2006 09:07
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