My child attended rugby for under 6s off and on last season. There are about 30 kids in this age group - boys and girls. The children play little games that involve following simple instruction and stamina. They also take part in races.It is reasonably well organised and professional. Last season my son was ok for the first 10 minutes or so and then became stroppy and disgruntled and then wouldn't participate. The 'rugby' lasts about 40 minutes. I took him back for his first session today and it was a nightmare. He joined in with the games but was stroppy and aggressive during relay type activities. I felt really upset by the end and so did he.
I am taking him because I come from a rugby background and more importantly he is an only child without a father figure and I thought this would mean seeing men (the dads come) participating in sport and being in a social setting with lots of children were he learns to take turns and follow simple instruction. The sessions costs about £140 for the seasonso it isn't cheap. Do I persevere? My instincts tell me too as I suspect it isn't his age which is making it frustrating. I don't know how to handle him when he is stroppy and wonders off. I encourage him and give him lots of praise but to be frank his behaviour makes my blood boil and is extremely stressful. The other kids pretty much without exception seem to take part after some initial nerves and enjoy it. Anyone had similar experiences or can offer ideas?
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Rugby 4 year old too young?
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madeit · 01/09/2013 18:19
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