I did once post something in only children section but the traffic was really small, so I thought I'd repost here.
I have one DS who is 2.5. For various reasons we won't be having another, which makes me a lot sadder than I thought. Both for myself, but also for my son. I'm currently around a lot of friends with kids his age, and they are now trying for, or pregnant with, their second...
Anyway, after a few tactless comments such as the one in the header from a friend's mum, I thought I'd ask people to share with me positive stories about raising a single child.
My DS seems really sociable. He likes being around other kids and I do my absolute best to see others, have playdates or whatever you call them. He has cousins and although none of us are in the same city, I make efforts to see them too.
But he constantly wants us to play with him, doesn't really want to do much on his own - which is probably personality as much as anything else - and in these moments, I worry that I'll always have to be his playmate. And that he'll be lonely, with his nose pressed against the window seeing others have fun with siblings that he doesn't have.
I know I'm romanticising - I didn't have a great relationship with my siblings - but it's hard not to, especially at certain points in the month when hormones take over!
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awayatlast · 30/08/2013 18:39
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