My DD is 4 and has started stealing. On 2 separate occasions she has put a toy from nursery into her bag and taken it home.
This morning she was asking me where her nursery bag was and I gave it to her, then caught her looking sheepish with her hands behind her back, so she knows it's wrong and that I won't approve.
The first time she did it I spoke to her about stealing and took the toy back and with her there explained to a member of staff she had brought it home without permission.
This time I spoke to her about stealing and asked how she would feel if someone came to our house and took gone one of her toys because they liked it. She understood and said she'd feel sad.
I've confiscated the toy and will speak to nursery again on Thursday but I don't want this becoming a habit.
She has plenty of toys but isn't spoilt either and I don't think it's for attention as she tries to be discreet!
Why do you think she's doing it? Is it normal? What should I do?
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4 year old stealing
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KnittedWaffle · 28/07/2013 09:43
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