DS1 is a nightmare with eating, and has been since about a year old. He used to eat everything, I made loads of lovely homemade dishes from weaning, and he gradually started refusing them all. Being a pfb, I think I somehow didn't manage to nip this behaviour in the bud because I just wanted to be sure he got something in him (obv regret this now) and he now has a limited repertoire of meals he'll eat - sausages, fish fingers, chicken nuggets, meatballs, potato waffles, that sort of thing. Not the most wholesome stuff, but he also eats cereals, bread, fruit, yoghurts, so I figured he's probably getting enough nutrients and over time we can re-expand his menu to include 'proper' meals like spag Bol, fish pie etc. But he just doesn't seem to get any better. We did reward chart, and offering food but not making a big deal about it. He occasionally 'tries' something - a piece of cucumber or some peas, or a spoonful of spaghetti, but it is a long slog of cajoling and he expects a reward after just one bite. If we are stricter, it breaks down into tears and screaming. It's like he believes he will eat it, but can't bring himself to actually put it in his mouth. I'm trying to limit snacks near to mealtimes, and leave uneaten food for him to come back to. But he tries every trick in the book, distraction, needs a wee, show me the pudding mummy, this pea's smashed, I don't have to eat all the carrots, puts spoon in mouth but then doesn't eat it, keeps food in side of mouth, I'm too tired, ...argh! It drives me mad. Meals end up taking over a hour and finish with everyone angry and upset and food usually uneaten. I have a 6 month old too and feel him watching this process twice a day cannot be good. So anyway, does anyone have a magical strategy that has worked for them..? Please say you do...!
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