I am at my wits end and need some advice. I can't get my nearly 3 year old and 5 year old to bed before 9/9.30 every night and it is always a struggle with tears. In the winter, it wasn't so bad and they were usually down by 8pm, but now its hot (we live in Spain) and lighter in the evening so I start the bedtime routine at 8 (upstairs to bath, then books in bed, a quiet chat and then lights out) but it then takes an hour or more before they are both asleep and I usually end up getting cross and they cry. By the time they are finally asleep I am exhausted and feeling guilty about the stress I must be causing them. They are both at school/nursery so need to be up by 7.30 so I have to drag them out of bed in the morning as they are so tired. My husband feels we should put them to bed at 9.30 and avoid the struggle but I feel that is too late for them.
I know deep down that it is probably my fault as they pick up on the fact that I am tired in the evening after a day of work and running the house and looking after 2 small children, but I am losing my confidence as a mum and getting very down about this. They are wonderful children but have so much energy and are so spirited and I need to find a way to get my control back.
Do I just give in and let them stay up, or do I persevere and continue to be strict about bedtimes...?
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Monsy · 16/06/2013 20:23
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