DS is 4 and I am beginning to wonder if he may have ADHD.
He is constantly fidgeting, talking, starting things and not finishing. He will not listen to instructions if it is something he finds 'boooring' even for things like looking for cars before crossing the road. I seem to spend my life repeating myself for every little thing.
He has a very quick temper if he feels he cannot, or does not want to, do something, even something as small as picking his clothes up or putting together train tracks. Sometimes he is easy to calm down/encourage but others he will stamp off and whatever the task was, he will declare it 'rubbish'. Tears are very frequent but then 2 mintues later, he is fine and doing something else.
He is contantly running or stamping or climbing over the furniture despite being told over and over. Any punishment does not dis-courage him from doing , he will simply take the punishment and then carry on, usually to repeat the same thing straight away. I have tried only praising the good behaviour and ignoring the bad to the same result. I have tried withdrawing from him when he is behaving badly but again the same result.
That all being said, he really is a kind, helpful, loving boy. He is often like a little puppy with me and I get loads of kisses and cuddles, he will lay with his head in my lap (hence the puppy comment), he tells me he loves me several times a day - and then he charges off again! lol
He will concentrate on something that interests him (at the minute space) and will watch a 20 minute video or listen to a book about it.
Sorry for the post of epic proportions but I don't know if I'm way off the mark and this is all 'normal' 4 y/o stuff or not
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TallyGrenshall · 07/05/2013 10:42
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