My ds is 18 weeks old and has always gone to bed really well, we have had a nightime routine since he was about 10 weeks and he is generally very smiley as i get him ready for bed, takes his teether for his teeth and then has the bottle followed by his gripe water. Either nearly falling asleep during his feed or not and either way falling happily to sleep when I put him down in his moses. I know I am extremely lucky!
However, recently he has refused his bottle and it has taken ages to get him to go to sleep. I have changed nothing about his routine (other than somtimes going to bed a little later or falling asleep past 5 which he isn't normally allowed to do as we have been out) He either refuses it straight away and cries everytime I put it in his mouth or try and get him into the feeding position or does a few gupls and then cries. I am worried as we had to go to ff at 3 and a half months as he started doing this with bf.
The milk is warm, he is in my arms and happy and calm beforehand, I have changed the teats but it is the same the next night. Tonight he took it to start with then started crying and wouldn't take it no matter which position I put him in and after I calmed him and tried again several times and burped him. His legs are kicking strongly when I am trying to give him his bottle. He eventually takes it after being shhhed until almost asleep or when he calms down enough and I talk to him to reassure him throughout.
My dh did the night feed the first time this started (he had only done it a couple of times before and I wanted him to do it so ds didn't start only going to bed for me) He says that he tested the heat of the milk before he gave it to ds but actually thinks it might have been too hot and have hurt his throut. On this occasion I managed to calm ds down, get him to take the bottle and he happily went to sleep.
What could be wrong? Could it be his teeth? He has been teething the last few days but was fine just before I fed him and I had given him the teether. How long does it take to work? If the milk was too hot when dh did the feed and it hurt his mouth could he now associate this with bedtime every time or is this too advanced for a baby?
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ds suddenly refusing his final feed before bed.
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cleoteacher · 01/05/2013 19:44
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