Just wanted some views on this, and how I can make things less stressful for my DS.
Started potty training him on the advice of the nursery he goes to 4 days a week. In the weeks leading up to it we'd had a potty out and he had a few pees on it and sat on it regularly plus the nursery had been taking him to use the potty during the day and said he was interested and ready.
Last Friday I took the day off and did the whole nappy off, regular trips to the potty thing and at first it went well but as the weekend went on he became les enamoured with the potty and started saying no and getting upset.
When I took him to nursery I explained what had happened but told them I had put pants in his bag and spare trousers and could they see how it goes. Picked him up Monday and Tuesday and both days he had only had one accident and I was able to get him in the car and home with him still dry. As soon as I asked him if he needed the potty when we were home he got all upset again and said no, then later peed on the floor. The only way he will willingly sit on it is if I sit on another one wit him (with my pants off - he knows when I have them on!).
Te nursery tell me not to go back now, that I need to keep on with it as he does get it and is doing really well. They say he's not always keen to sit on the potty he's following what the other kids do and will make his own way to the potty.
So - how do I deal with him and his potty aversion when he is at home? I don't want to (and can't) force him on to the potty but with another weekend coming I am dreading him continuing to pee on the floor.
I am doing all the high praise stuff but he's just really adamant that he won't go on the potty.
Is this just a waiting game? I have tried a child seat on the toilet and he refuses tha too.
He is two and 4 months.
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DuelingFanjo · 24/04/2013 22:13
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