DS, who will be 3 at the end of July, is currently the most exhausting child in the world ever. He gets up every morning at 5.30/ 6 ish, and bangs on his bedroom door yelling for us until we let him out. He's then just go go go, immediately, running around the house, trying to play with things he knows he's not allowed to and then screaming like we're the most unreasonable parents in the world when we take them away from him, turning on lights, waking up the baby, etc. And everything is a battle - getting him dressed, putting on his coat and shoes etc. He gets plenty of exercise - we go out every morning and every afternoon - I don't allow him to have sugar or crisps or juice so the processed food is very limited (he often refuses to eat though. I don't make a thing about it, I just say fine and get him down from his high chair, and he frequently won't even try new things at all - he basically survives on cereal, yoghurt, toast, bananas, blueberries, apples, baked beans, chicken and cheese). He's well behaved at other people's houses, and at nursery, where he appears to listen and do what he's told . It's just at home. And he KNOWS when he's being naughty. He's on occasion said sorry BEFORE as he commits the crime (eg pulling a mug off the side in the kitchen and hurling it at the floor so that it breaks). But there is no remorse attached to the sorry, and he does these things all day long, and will find the next thing to do while I'm still clearing up the first. The baby is eight months now, so he's had time to get used to her, and he still has plenty of solo attention from me - we do a weekly swimming lesson together, I spend hours building train sets with him, reading him stories etc. Oh, he's also a nightmare when we're out, running away from me etc., going limp and refusing to walk, darting into shops and screaming "Hide and Seek!" Before he darts under/ behind furniture. I feel like I'm at my wits end. Is all this normal? How do I punish him so that he doesn't do it again? (If I put him in his room he destroys it, he won't sit on a step and stay there ....) Any advice very gratefully received!
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Puffykins · 30/03/2013 07:04
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