neighbours ds was playing with his willy,do i tell his parents?

[buffythenappyslayer]

i was in the garden last night and my kids were playing on the estate.one of our neighbours sons is nerly 8 years old.he climbed onto a wall and shouted at my dd (who is 10) to look at him.i looked and he had his hand down his trousers fiddling with his bits saying'ive got a big willy'!i told him it was rude and he stuck 2 fingers up at me.hes always been cheeky,and once grabbed his teachers boobs when she was fastening his coat up!but i was a bit shocked at his behaviour last night.i dont want to tell my kids not to play with him,but at the same time,i dont want them thinking his behaviour is ok.should i tell his parents what he was doing or should i just leave it?his dad will think its funny,hes like that.told dh this morning and he said not to let our kids go out to play tonight.thats not fair on them though.any advice?

[MrsBigD]

Tricky one that one. I'd probably talk to the kids parents to have a little chat with their son re 'decent behaviour' just to get it off my chest. Then again, I seem to read that the father probably would be 'proud' of his ds's laddish behaviour...

Wouldn't keep your kids in. Not fair on them. If it becomes repeat behaviour I'd defo have a severe chat with his parents, and failing that 'mention' social services after all lewd behaviour is an offence isn't it?

We had a neighbour whose kids kept throwing balls into our backgarden and at one stage a water filled coke bottle that hit our glass house and smashed some panes. Went to talk to the father who couldn't have cared less... he never even apoligised! not to mention make good for the glasshouse.

[PinkKerPlink]

boys are obsessed with their willies though arent they?

i wouldnt stop your kids playing out because of it tbh

[shimmy21]

I'd talk to your own kids about what a silly boy he is and how it's not OK to show your private parts. Then ask yours to let you know if he ever does it again. They will probably gleefully tell you. If he does it again, then take it further, if not then all well and good...

[buffythenappyslayer]

this boy aparantly has done it school aswell.the family already ahve social services involved because of othehr things.his dad is the sort to be proud of his son doing it.he laughed when he grabbed the teachers boobs and said 'thast my boy' .id have been mortified and wouldnt have stopped apologising if it was one of my kids!my kids know that hes naughty for doing it.i dont think it would be too bad if it was a smaller child,i remember ds1 dropping his trousers when he was 2 and half and announced he had a willy and for everyone to look!but this boy is 9! (i thought he was nearly 8,but dd who is at home today,said hes in the class below her and shes 10).might just try to steer my kids away from him if they go out today.will get dh to talk to the boys dad,man to man and all!