Hi, I'm really not sure what to do about this. My ds, 3 in June, just loves little ones, but is too over-affectionate with them almost to the point of smothering them, ie, trying to pick them up, giving them cuddles, telling them how to do things (which involves snatching the toy from them first and telling them how to work it) etc etc.
There is a 16mo in my group of friends (his friend's younger sibling) which he just follows round, pushes this way and that to get him to go into a room or whatever, but is basically trying to run his life! I have just heard from nursery that a little boy hit him and when I asked the head teacher why/how this happened she said it was by the little boy he constantly follows round and the little boy just had enough and pushed ds away from him. Ds got told off, and now seems upset to go to nursery (since Easter).
The headteacher confirmed that ds isn't mallicious (sp?) in any way, but just smothers this little boy 'cos he loves him'. It sounds exactly like he is when we see this other youngster. I feel like it's a coming of age thing where he now knows he can control situations, but doesn't realise when he's crossing the line and also doesn't know his own strength. Sometimes he does push the little boys if they don't do what he wants, but doesn't push his peers. I do find him a handful at home sometimes cos he's a strong-willed, stong-tempered little thing, but I would say 80% of the time he's my little angel, espeically if he's doing something (you know how they get when they're bored). He's not physical with his younger sister(6mo) either.
So I really don't know how to handle this one. Obviously when I see this happening at my friends' houses I stop his actions and explain that it's not acceptable, that the other little boy is a little person and can do his own thing. But he repeatedly acts like this, on the day and on subsequent days. I just want to nip it in the bud.
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Almost 3yo smothering little ones (with affection) at nursery
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99redballoons · 02/05/2006 11:50
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