Just back from an afternoon out with friends, where we reminisced about a visit to a farm a while ago. While there, my friend's dd was intent on jumping up and down in a puddle (wearing wellies), and eventually the inevitable happened....she slipped and fell in a puddle. She was unhurt, but so completely covered in mud mixed with horse poo that the only solution was to strip her naked (in spite of cold temperature), and drive her home in the car wrapped only in a blanket.
We were laughing about it today (almost two years later), and this child suddenly burst into loud and inconsolable wails. My friend wasn't bothered, but said that her daughter had no ability to laugh at herself as she equates it with humiliation. It got me thinking that my own dd also seems to hate it if she thinks someone is "laughing at her".
Is this a typical age related phase, or was I unintentionally unkind? Is there anything I can do in future to help my own dd understand that she needs to learn to laugh at herself when something funny happens?
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Can your child laugh at themselves or be the butt of a joke?
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Earlybird · 30/04/2006 17:37
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