My DS is 21 months old and trilingual. We speak English together with DH and our own languages to DS when addressing him directly or when alone with him (I.e I speak my language to DS throughout the day and DH speaks his language to DS in the evenings when he's home from work and plays with DS and baths him).
It's really hard to remember to speak my language to DS and as we live in the UK, everything around us happens in English, so it's difficult to try and incorporate the other languages, but we try our best.
DS says probably around 30 or so words. Some of them are in his other 2 languages, but most of the words are in English. I am painfully aware of him being a bit behind his peers and I even have a friend, whose DS is also trilingual and is able to speak much more than my DS, albeit he is 4.5 months older.
I'm a bit concerned about DS's comprehension. I've noticed in toddler groups etc. That other children DS's age seem to be able to follow instructions and generally seem to understand much more than DS. Just today I asked DS to give me his cup from the table and he was just staring at me looking confused.
The speech and language therapist at our Children's Centre told me that multilingual children are no slower at learning language compared to monolingual kids, contrary to what was believed before. They don't really see it as 'learning different languages' at such an early age and simply learn to talk.. I'm not convinced and generally feel quite impatient and wish he would speak much more. I've never felt very happy speaking my language to him anyway and have now reached a point where I just think I should stop, as I feel it's just confusing to both of us.
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Fazerina · 10/02/2013 00:24
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