Hello.
I have a 3 month old daughter. Apart from pretty nasty reflux she is generally a smiley, gurgling joy.
However, she seems to be developing some kind of anxiety which currently presents itself with my best friend and my mum.
She has been in my mum's company several times since she was born (we live 150 miles away) and mum has always been a calm and relaxed presence. I have been with my parents for a couple of days and my DD simply will not be held by my mum. When I arrived I handed baby to mum and nipped to the loo. When I got back baby was crying and it just got more and more shrill until I took her back. This happened every single time mum tried to hold her.
We tried all sorts - I stayed in the room, waited until she was fed, well rested and so on. Same response.
Just to make matters worse DD did happily allow herself to be held by my granny and my aunty - two complete strangers. Last week she was being passed around toddler group and being licked by some excitable 3 year olds. No problems there.
She reacted the same way with my best friend. She has also met her several times and previously been fine.
I would love to know if anyone has any ideas. My poor mum looked broken! Actually, so does DD - the cry is desperate.
Other info is that she was inoculated on Tuesday. This wouldn't explain her reaction with friend three weeks ago however.
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3 month old with selective 'stranger' anxiety?
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Passmethecrisps · 08/02/2013 20:37
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